Advocate Rajat Kadyan & Associates · Gurugram

In divorce, maintenance and custody cases, people often rush to collect "proof": secret recordings, phone screenshots, tracked locations. Some of it helps. Some of it does serious damage to the person who collected it.

Evidence that tends to help

  • Documents: marriage records, bank statements in your own name, medical records, property papers.
  • Messages and emails that you lawfully received or sent, preserved with dates and sender details.
  • Photographs and videos you lawfully captured in a place where you were entitled to be.
  • Witnesses who saw or heard relevant events directly.
  • Records of reports to the police, doctors, schools or employers.
  • Documented observations from a professional investigator working within the law.

Evidence that backfires

  • Accessing your spouse's phone, email or social media without permission.
  • Installing tracking or spy apps.
  • Obtaining call records or location history through unofficial routes.
  • Entering premises or following someone in a way that amounts to harassment or stalking.

Beyond admissibility questions, these acts can lead to criminal complaints against you under IT and criminal law, and a judge may view them harshly when deciding custody or maintenance.

Electronic evidence needs care

Chats, emails and recordings must be preserved in original form and accompanied by the certificate required for electronic records under the Bharatiya Sakshya Adhiniyam, 2023. Do not edit, crop or forward-and-delete. Keep the device.

Getting it right

Speak to a lawyer before collecting anything. Our divorce and family lawyers in Gurgaon advise on what to gather, and our private detective service in Gurugram can document facts lawfully when independent evidence is needed. For allegations involving cruelty or dowry, see crime against women lawyer.

General information, not legal advice.

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